Thursday, November 17, 2011

Paper Thin

Oooh.  Today is my our anniversary.

One year ago we went off and got mallied in DC.   Yes, Mallied.  Sheeesh.  (I am 99.99% I've used that line before.)

It seems odd saying we are celebrating a one year anniversary (or 5.07 in Kardashian years), when we are pushing three decades together.  I think I've said before it was hard enough celebrating one anniversary, but now we have a second date to consider.

Even the first date was tough.  First date?  First time you move in together? Final time you moved in together (yes, there was more than one time)?  If not a marriage date - how do gay couples truly pick "the" date they are together?  Married couples don't really celebrate their first date and call it their "anniversary", do they?

I know none of my four sisters do.  And I don't know anyone else who does.  They'd be hard-pressed to know the date of their first time out together.  Yet that is the date Denton and I have inscribed on our rings - which we got years before we had the opportunity to get married.

I know none of my sisters had as good of a best man / matron of honor / honor attendant as we did, that's for shore.  Yes, I spelled it that way!  Whatta gonna do?


So, we made it to year one and we're still together.  Maybe these crazy kids can make a go of it and beat all odds.   Only time will tell.



Song by:  John Hiatt

14 comments:

Sean said...

Congratulations!

Birdie said...

I just melt when I see that picture of you and Denton. Happy anniversary, gentlemen, whenever it is.

The next picture makes me laugh out loud and wish for more.

Cubby said...

Woo hoo!! Congratulations Blobby & Denton!

Theaterdog said...

Yeah, Congratulations from me too, what a fantastic photo,

I always think, "I wish I had grown up with images like this one."

celebrate well!

Raybeard said...

Felicitations from me too. Just shows it CAN be done!

don said...

The photo of you two kissing gives me hope and joy. Congratulations to you both.

anne marie in philly said...

YAYZ, you two made it! do you still have the top of your wedding cake?

my anniversary is 10-17, the day I got married. it's the only anniversary date I have. and here it is a year later and STILL NO EQUALITY!

many happy days ahead for you and denton, blobby!

Erik Rubright said...

Congratulations. Or double congratulations? Now I'm confused on which date too!

Ur-spo said...

warm congratulations to the both of you!
May there be many more years each one better than the last one.

wcs said...

A hearty congratulations! And many more.

BosGuy said...

Belated congratulations on your anniversary earlier this week.

cb said...

An actual picture of the two of you in the same place?

And they said you guys didn't exist!

tornwordo said...

Well it's an easy date for me to remember, it's Serge's birthday. We celebrate (if we remember) the day we met and the wedding day. 1 years todether, 7 married now. We got hitched right after it was legalized here in '04.

Happy Anniversary coupla days late!

tornwordo said...

Hm, a mini-stroke perhaps? 18 years together.