Wednesday, February 26, 2025
Cooking with Blobby
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
Site of the Month
Yes. Soft White Underbelly has a website, but at a subscription cost of $10/month. I think we all know how cheap I am, so.......that isn't happening.
The site bills itself as "people who are frequently invisible in society—the unhoused, the sex worker, the chronic drug user, the runaway, the gang member, the poor and the sick".
All (or at the very least, a lot) of the interviews done are on YouTube.
Jack - the guy to your left - popped up in my YouTube feed and I'm shallow enough (and honest enough) to say his looks are what got me to click play.
His segment was just called Long Road to Redemption. I had no idea what I was really clicking on.
What I really had no idea was what rabbit hole it would take me down.
The "invisible to society" thing goes a lot deeper than what Soft White Underbelly lists in their short bio. It's quite the range and to be frank, not easy to get through some, and some not at all.
The interviewer, Mark Laita, treats each interviewee with dignity and respect and asks seemingly not so deep questions (most of the time) that elicit some pretty raw and revealing stories. Some are half hour segments, some well over an hour. Some are multi part videos or follow-ups over the years.
Yes, years.
There are hundreds of these videos on YouTube (at no monthly charge).
I feel like I have watched a lot, but I haven't even remotely scraped the surface. Honestly, there are only so many you can watch before needing a break.
One thing that stands out is what is usually the first question: "what was your childhood like?".
The majority start off by saying {paraphrasing} "it was very normal......" with some additional notes. But then they will tell somethings that are very much not 'normal', but in a way to a lot of these folks, it is their normal - or what they've come to see as normal.
I am not a psychologist (though I have one!) or sociologist, but in their own way, they are extremely fascinating. .....just pace yourself.
Monday, February 24, 2025
My Music Monday
Sunday, February 23, 2025
Ice
One could argue that Cleveland is the same. I mean, there is only a lake separating us - and at the far western corner of the state, not even that.
Where I went to the first half of kindergarten, it's been told that while the school was in Ohio, part of the school playground resided in Michigan. But I don't claim to me a Michiganander - or whatever they're called.
Yesterday, on this the 173rd day of February, it was more of the same.
Oddly, no new snow or ice, but no warmth either. The blue sky is just a ruse. Lake Erie is 90% covered in ice. This what I call "Hoth in Summer".
Yesterday's a.m. run was cooooooold. 14°F. Felt colder. The plan was to run south but the paths were bad, allegedly, so we ran north. The path was spotty at best. As far as I know no one fell, but as I didn't run the minimum or maximum amount - like the 3rd bear, my distance was jusssssst right - at the turn, I ran by myself. Which was fine.
Today's a.m. run looks to be 25°F. I might push the distance to meet yesterday. I know that I'll be running alone. The Sunday crew never goes above 5.25 miles.
Sweat wicking clothes or not, while I am warm running, afterwards in that temp, you get pretty cold. The wet on your back is not all wicked away.
Ice is still ever present on our drive and dog walks.
If the weather people are to be believed, on Tuesday we will be above freezing for the first time in weeks. Maybe even the first time this month. I'm not holding my breath. Maybe we will turn a corner on this.
It is time this week to make some determination about springtime races. I think I have a plan, I just need to sign up and commit.
Song by: Daniel Lanois
Saturday, February 22, 2025
Golden
Friday, February 21, 2025
Empty
Thursday, February 20, 2025
Going Up
Wednesday, February 19, 2025
Down
Tuesday, February 18, 2025
Snow Tunnel
Monday, February 17, 2025
My Music Monday
Sunday, February 16, 2025
Instant Karma
It's been a while since I've done one of these, but it's finally time to clear out screen captures from my phone liberry.
I like to fuck around with "people" who text me out of the blue, but really have zero connection with me. They are either bots or possibly people who actually type in the wrong phone number to message their "friends".
The oddest parts are: almost no one ever responds back. I get that with the bots, but.......maybe it's not that odd.
Anyway here we go. Clear out some time on your calendar, as it's a lot of messages.
Song by: John Lennon
Saturday, February 15, 2025
Freedom
Friday, February 14, 2025
Two of Hearts
Song by: Stacey Q










































